Some dogs
are boisterous, outgoing and brave.
Others are more timid and shy.
Just like people, each dog has their own
personality. Sometimes these differences
can be a matter of genetics (nature), or
can be learned through their life
experiences (nurture). Whether it’s
nature, nurture, or a combination of
both, you can help your timid or shy dog
to become more confident.
Dogs who are skittish or fearful can
often suffer from behavior problems such
as separation anxiety, excessive
barking, or chewing.
If fears escalate enough, these pets can
sometimes become fear biters… displaying
aggressive behavior due to their
perceived need for self defense.
In mild cases, skittish or timid dogs
simply miss out on lots of the fun stuff
in life! Instead of getting petted by
dog loving visitors, they may choose to
hide in a corner. Instead of enjoying
jaunts to the park or tousling with
other dogs, they may instead cower or
avoid those situations.
If your dog is timid or shy, you can
help your pet by using some obedience
training, socialization, and confidence
building exercises. By working on basic
commands, you’ll have the opportunity to
praise your dog for learning something
new. This can be an excellent confidence
builder.
Agility can also boost confidence.
Learning to jump, climb or weave,
(formerly ’scary’ exercises), can really
help skittish dogs to become more
self-assured. You can either find an
agility class to join, or create some
simple activities of your own. Even
something as basic as getting your pet
to jump over a small piece of wood,
which you gradually make higher, can
make a big difference. Praise lavishly!
Last but not least, be sure never to pet
your dog while afraid. For example, if
you pet your dog while he’s shying away
from a visitor, he’ll think you’re
praising him for being scared. He will
not feel soothed. Instead, gently tell
him "No", and help him to behave more
naturally by doing some obedience
commands, playing ball, or some other
common activity. Praise your dog after
he’s acting more relaxed, and encourage
him to receive a treat or a pat from
your friend.
This article was written by
Lori Verni
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